13 App-Controlled Sex Toys for Couples in Long Distance Relationships


With advances in technology, it is far easier to be in a long distance relationship than ever before. We have texting. We have FaceTime. We also have sex toys that your partner can control from 3,000 miles away. Is it as good as having sex with your partner in the same room? Well, maybe not. But at least you can have a fulfilling sex life with your partner, even if you don’t live in the same city (or if you’re quarantined separately amid the coronavirus pandemic).

Picture this: You’re video calling your loved one with a vibrating prostate massager in your butt, and your partner says, “I’m going to make you cum in three, two, one.” Then she turns up the knob on the app, the vibrations intensify, and you orgasm—while she’s watching it happen on her laptop.

As businesswoman extraordinaire Paris Hilton says, “That’s hot.”

The only real issue, then, is finding a sex toy that’s bluetooth or wifi compatible and has an app where you can control your partner’s sex toy (and vice-versa). That’s why I’ve compiled a list of the top 13 app-controlled sex toys ideal for couples in long distance relationships. These toys can be controlled from anywhere.

Hush Vibrating Butt Plug

Lovense is the long distance sex toy manufacturer. In fact, all of their toys connect to an app, allowing either you or your partner to control the toy from thousands of miles away.

The Hush is their vibrating butt plug. I like this one because it actually has stronger vibrations than the majority of other vibrating butt plugs currently on the market.

Max 2 Male Masturbator

This is the only masturbation sleeve on the list, and to my knowledge, this is currently the only masturbation sleeve on the market that can be controlled by your partner from hundreds of miles away. The Max 2 has vibrations and constrictions, so it will feel like your partner is giving you a handy from across the globe.

Svakom Ella Love Egg Vibrator

This powerful love egg vibrators comes not only with 10 vibration modes and app-powered abilities, but an extra vibration setting, Climax Mode, that is designed to take your pleasure over the top. It’s both quiet and water-proof, making it ideal for your partner to wear out of the house.

Desire Panty Vibrator

This panty vibrator is something your partner can wear throughout the entire day. Surprise her as she’s in the middle of a boring meeting by turning up the vibrations to level 12.

Esca 2 App Love Egg Vibrator

Esca 2 is a versatile wearable massager that your partner can wear out to work, if she so chooses. The illuminating LED lights sync to the vibrations, providing visual feedback to your partner.

Moxie Clitoral Panty Vibrator

Moxie is a new wearable clitoral vibrator that can be controlled, like the other We-vibe products, with the We-Connect app. It’s designed to be worn discreetly underneath clothing, staying in place with a magnetic clip and providing powerful-but-quiet vibrations, so it can be worn out and about – to the grocery store, the club, a restaurant, etc.

Osci 2: The Oscillating G-Spot “Vibrator”

Lovense puts “vibrator” in quotes because this product is slightly different, and there is no word yet to describe this category of sex toy. Instead of vibrating like other traditional toys, Osci 2 rapidly oscillates, moving the vibrations in and out—uniquely pleasuring your partner’s G-spot.

Vector Prostate Massager

The Vector is an adjustable prostate and perineum massager. I actually reviewed the toy here, and spoiler, I loved it. It has firm but gentle pressure and rumbling vibrations that hit all the right spots. While I didn’t have a partner control it from another city, you absolutely can.

Desire Prostate Vibrator

Desire’s prostate massager has 8 vibration patterns and 12 intensity levels. The desire app makes it simple to use by yourself or with your partner in a different time zone.

Couple’s Vibrator

This device works when you partner’s alone or while you’re having sex with her. The device hooks around her vulva, stimulating both her G-spot and clitoris.

Nova G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

The We-Vibe Nova rabbit-style vibrator stimulates both the clitoris and G-spot with 10 different vibrations patterns. The “arms” of the device are flexible for her pleasure.

Ditto Butt Plug

Ditto is an excellent intro to anal play that can add new stimulation to your masturbation, foreplay and intercourse routines. Its slim shape, flexible neck, and un-intimidating size make it comfortable to wear and fun to explore with, especially since it can be controlled from anywhere via the We-Connect app.

Clitoral Stimulator

This clit stimulator is the perfect toy to help her orgasm from miles away. It’s quiet and water-proof in case you want your partner to use it in the shower.